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There are a lot of things to worry about as modern parents, from the impact of social media on our kids, to violence in schools. But some of us may be worrying so much that our parenting style leans toward overprotective, and even stifling.

I’m talking about intensive parenting, a term which dates back to 1996 when a sociologist named Sharon Hays coined “intensive mothering.”

The term, which has been compared to helicopter parenting, was brought into the spotlight recently through some parents on TikTok. “We’re now in a position where we have to figure out if we continue putting all of ourselves into our children to help them become better humans or if we scale it back,” one parent shares in a TikTok video talking about the parenting style.

Raquel Herrero-Arias, PhD, a researcher of kids and parents at the University of Bergen in Norway, recently also spoke of wanting to research this parenting style. She sees intensive parenting as a style where caregivers are potentially doing too much, to the detriment of the entire family.

While intensive parenting can have benefits, including building parent-child bonds through more time spent together, it can also lead to issues when taken too far.

What Does Intensive Parenting Mean?

You may practice intensive parenting if you constantly strive to keep your kids entertained, rarely leave them in the care of others, and advocate for them to the point of not respecting boundaries with teachers and coaches. 

I’ll admit to being guilty of some intensive parenting habits, such as organizing my life around my children, and investing too much of myself into their emotional state, as well as obsessing over whether I handled tricky situations well enough.

Some aspects of intensive parenting take the notion of the child-centered family further, with parents basing their entire sense of well-being upon kids’ successes in life. Parents may even attempt to live vicariously through their kids, and worry, well, intensely about their futures.

Intensive parenting typically also includes parents being heavily involved in a child’s academics, extracurricular activities, and social interactions. They may often also step in to help their kids solve problems or handle challenges.

While putting your kids first isn’t necessarily a bad thing, according to experts, intensive parenting can lead to unhealthy pressures being placed on kids, and parents who aren’t focusing on themselves to the point of leading a dangerously unbalanced life.

What’s Causing Intensive Parenting?

It’s believed parents are turning to an intensive style of child-rearing because raising our families in the modern world is more difficult and therefore requires ramped up supervision. Here’s why.

Social media pressures

Experts say social media is a huge cause of intensive parenting.

“Most of us know, on a cognitive level, that social media is a highlight reel—a small piece of what actually happens,” says Anne Welsh, PhD, a Belmont, Massachusetts-based clinical psychologist and specialist in maternal mental health. “However, that constant exposure to other ways of doing things—seemingly perfect ways—starts to have an impact on us.”

For example, a 2024 Little Sleepies survey found about 73% of moms compares themselves to other parents on social media. And 77% of moms report feeling “mom guilt” because of social media.4

Dr. Welsh reports, “I have seen clients whose mental health and parenting confidence improves significantly when they spend less time on social media.”

Lauren Canonico, LCSW, a New York City-based psychotherapist and adjunct professor at Affirmative Therapy Collective, agrees that social media plays a big role in pressuring parents.

“From showing perfectly-packed lunches to allegedly Montessori-approved activities that require hours of preparation, and presenting these as normal, daily activities, we’ve made parents feel that the baseline must be extraordinary, with no room for deviation or falling short,” she explains.

Rise in parenting expectations

Social media isn’t the only reason parenting today is so demanding. Dr. Welsh believes that overall, the expectations for parents have risen dramatically in recent years. 

“There is an expectation that we are perfectly emotionally regulated, endlessly available, and always present,” she says. “While those might be laudable goals, they also aren’t reality.”

Canonico underscores that for her, there is no question this current moment creates greater difficulty for parents.

“The world we live in is busier, more demanding, and more expensive than any time that has come before,” she says. “We’re expecting the same things from ourselves—possibly more given the pressures for perfection—with far less disposable time and income to get it done than past generations.”

Given these perspectives, it’s easy to see how parents turn to an intensive style to cope with the many seeming-requirements of raising our kids today.

A parent’s own upbringing

Outside of the demands of raising small humans at this unprecedented time, there are other factors that may drive caregivers toward intensive parenting. 

“A common theme I see in parenting styles is a pendulum swing from what came before,” says Canonico. “Gen X-ers and Millennials, the two primary groups raising children right now, both have their own unique generational baggage.”

Gen X-ers were the first latchkey kids, whose parents may have both worked, and therefore, they came home to an empty house, unsupervised, after school.

Meanwhile, as Canonico explains, “Millennials have faced crisis after crisis, often feeling unprotected and unprepared, and relying on over-work and hustle culture as guard against this.”

In her view, both generations are working to prevent their kids from going through their lived experiences. 

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A few years ago, I went to Italy with my then-boyfriend, James. As we sat tucking into a plate of frutti di mare at a seaside restaurant, I struck up a conversation with the waiter in Italian. While I was enjoying myself, James sat glumly and fiddled awkwardly with his phone. Back in the hotel room, he asked why I had ignored him. By speaking in a language he didn’t understand, he said I had managed to make him feel small. I could see his point. I spent quite a while chatting away, oblivious to how he must be feeling. I then went on to joke that as the Italian speaker, I would order for us – after all he didn’t know what osso buco meant… I was showing off. It wasn’t the first time something like this had happened to me. I have always taken the driving seat, been determined to get the last word, and was too busy with books to master the art of charm.

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A prosecutor handpicked by President Trump secured an indictment of New York’s attorney general, Letitia James, on bank fraud and false statement charges in the Eastern District of Virginia on Thursday after the president publicly demanded she be charged.

The five-page indictment accused Ms. James of falsely claiming in loan documents that she would use a home she purchased in Norfolk, Va., as a secondary residence, and using it instead as a rental investment property, allowing her to receive favorable terms that would save her close to $19,000.

Ever since President Trump took office, New York’s attorney general, Letitia James, has been suing his administration to block policies that she says threaten access to health care or violate privacy laws and the Constitution.

Just nine days ago, her office sued the Department of Homeland Security and its head, Kristi Noem, after it diverted millions in antiterrorism funds from the Metropolitan Transportation Authority, which runs New York’s subways, buses, and commuter rails. On Oct. 1, a judge temporarily blocked the transfer of money.

When Letitia James ran for New York attorney general in 2018, one of her promises was to sue Donald Trump. She called him an “illegitimate president.” She suggested that he could be criminally charged with obstruction of justice.

She said that her decision to seek office was largely “about that man in the White House who can’t go a day without threatening our fundamental rights.”

The animosity between Letitia James, New York’s attorney general, and President Trump goes back years, to Mr. Trump’s first term in office. Here is what led to Ms. James’s indictment on Thursday.

Nov. 6, 2018: Speaking to supporters in Brooklyn on the night she was elected attorney general, Ms. James announced to Mr. Trump: “We here in New York — and I, in particular — we are not scared of you.” She promised to shine “a bright light into every dark corner of his real estate dealings, and every dealing, demanding truthfulness at every turn.”

For months, high-ranking officials in the Trump administration have accused several of the president’s enemies of mortgage fraud. The two-count indictment of New York’s attorney general, Letitia James, is the first of those allegations to appear in the form of criminal charges.

The indictment refers to a home Ms. James purchased in Norfolk, Va., in 2020. It accuses her of having said in loan documents that she would use the home as a secondary residence, but instead she used the home as a rental property. That, they say, violated her mortgage agreement — which barred her from renting the property — and allowed her to receive favorable loan terms.

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President Trump demanded publicly that Attorney General Letitia James of New York be charged. Credit…Victor J. Blue for The New York Times

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In 2017, Ashley Moffett, a reproductive immunologist, walked to the pharmacy near her laboratory at the University of Cambridge, UK, to buy a pregnancy test. But it wasn’t for Moffett. Her postdoc, Margherita Turco, had created what she thought might be the first cluster of cells capable of mimicking the tissue of the placenta — a placental organoid. But she needed a way to be sure.

“We must do a pregnancy test on them,” Moffett said.

If Turco was correct, the miniature ball of cells she had created would secrete HCG, the hormone that triggers a positive pregnancy test. “I took the stick, put it in, and it was positive,” says Turco, now a reproductive biologist at the Friedrich Miescher Institute for Biomedical Research in Basel, Switzerland. “It was the best celebration.”

Scientists make organoids such as this by coaxing stem cells to grow in a jelly-like substance and to self-assemble into clumps of tissue. The typically hollow or solid balls of cells don’t look anything like real organs. But they do take on key aspects of the organ that they’re meant to represent — liver, brain, lung, or stomach, for instance.

The mini-organs have the advantage of being more realistic than a 2D cell culture — the conventional in vitro workhorses — because they behave more like tissue. The cells divide, differentiate, communicate, respond to their environment and, just like in a real organ, die. And, because they contain human cells, they can be more representative than many animal models. “Animals are good models in the generalities, but they start to fall down in the particulars,” says Linda Griffith, a biological engineer at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology in Cambridge.

Over the past decade, organoid research has exploded. Researchers have used them to study early brain development, test cancer therapies, and much more. And these 3D models stand to become even more crucial as US agencies, including the National Institutes of Health, the Food and Drug Administration, and the Environmental Protection Agency, aim to move away from animal testing.

Now, researchers are using organoids to study female reproduction, an area in which animal models can be especially limited. Lab mice, for example, don’t menstruate. And their placentas don’t develop in the same way as human placentas do. That challenge, along with a historical lack of funding for women’s health research, has left basic questions unanswered.

“I really see it as a powerful model to do science,” says Mirjana Kessler, a cell biologist at the Ludwig Maximilian University of Munich in Germany, who has developed an organoid that mimics the fallopian tube and a biobank of ovarian cancer organoids.

Organoids of the placenta, endometrium, ovary, and vagina could help to reveal how these organs function, and what happens when things go awry.

“There’s so much work to do to understand the normal biology,” Turco says.

The placenta invades

The placenta plays a key part in maternal health during pregnancy. Humans aren’t the only species that develops a placenta, but the “human placenta is quite different than most other species, even primates, actually, apart from apes”, says Moffett. Mice and humans, for example, both have placentas that invade the uterine lining, but the timing of development and the depth of invasion differ. Exactly what happens during the early days of placental development is still unclear, but problems at this stage can have serious consequences later.

One of the placenta’s first jobs is to create a link between the mother and the developing embryo. To do this, the placenta invades the spiral arteries that feed the uterus. The invasive cells open up the arteries, “essentially making a channel so that mom can provide what she needs through her blood supply”, says Victoria Roberts, a developmental biologist at the Oregon National Primate Research Center in Beaverton. (Nature recognizes that transgender men and non-binary people might have female reproductive organs and might become pregnant. ‘Mother’ is used in this article to reflect language used by the field.)

The process can be deadly if it goes wrong. If the placenta invades too deeply, a condition called placenta accreta, the expectant mother can lose too much blood during birth. And if the organ doesn’t invade deeply enough, then the fetus might not get enough nutrients to sustain its growth.

Shallow invasion can also impact the mother’s health. When the placenta doesn’t get enough blood, research suggests it can become inflamed and secrete harmful factors into the mother’s blood that trigger pre-eclampsia, a condition characterized by protein build-up in the blood and dangerously high blood pressure. Worldwide, 2–8% of pregnant people develop the condition. “It’s a very serious pregnancy complication that goes silent and undetected until very late into pregnancy,” says Quinton Smith, a chemical engineer at the University of California, Irvine. The only way to cure the condition is to deliver the baby, even if that means a preterm birth.

To better understand the condition, Smith, Turco, and other researchers are using organoids made of placental cells called trophoblasts to model the molecular processes involved. Turco is focused on the basic biology of how invasion is regulated, a process that seems to be controlled by both the fetus and the mother. “It’s got to be a compromise,” Moffett says. “It’s an absolute dialogue.”

That dialogue seems to be happening between the placenta and the uterine lining. As a case in point, when an embryo implants somewhere the lining doesn’t exist — on a scar left by a previous caesarean delivery or in a fallopian tube, for example — “there’s no control of the invasion at all”, Turco says.

Research suggests that immune cells called uterine natural killer cells have a key role in this conversation. The cells don’t kill but instead send out chemical signals that help to regulate the invasion of the uterine lining.

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A 29-year-old man has been arrested and charged with igniting the fire that days later became the devastating Palisades blaze, which killed 12 people and destroyed more than 6,800 structures in one of the most destructive wildfires in Los Angeles history.

Jonathan Rinderknecht was arrested near his Florida residence on federal charges of destruction of property by means of fire, acting US attorney for the central district of California, Bill Essayli, announced on Wednesday. No motive was presented.

The investigators allege Rinderknecht maliciously started what became the Lachman fire, shortly after midnight on New Year’s Day in the Pacific Palisades. That fire smoldered underground for nearly a week before resurfacing on 7 January amid heavy winds, spreading rapidly to become the Palisades fire, investigators say.

The Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives (ATF) said a wide-ranging investigation it conducted in past months raked in more than 13,000 items of evidence, and included hundreds of interviews – some overseas – and more than 200 leads. Investigators also documented more than 300 ATF reports, including a 200-page report detailing the origin and cause of the investigation.

According to Essayli, Rinderknecht, who was a Palisades resident before relocating to Florida, had been working as an Uber driver on New Year’s Eve and returned to the Pacific Palisades after his evening shift. Two passengers told law enforcement he appeared “agitated and angry” that night, Essayli said.

After dropping off a passenger, according to the investigators, Rinderknecht parked his car and walked up a nearby trail, taking iPhone videos at a hilltop location while listening to a rap song whose music video included objects being set alight. He had reportedly listened to the song and watched its video repeatedly in the days before the fire.

Law enforcement officials identified and interviewed Rinderknecht on 24 January. During questioning, he allegedly lied about his location when he first saw the fire, claiming he was near the bottom of a hiking trail. However, geolocation data from his 911 call showed he was standing above the fire in a clearing merely 30ft from the blaze as it rapidly grew, prosecutors said.

Among the digital evidence collected was an image Rinderknecht had generated on ChatGPT months before the fire, depicting what Essayli described as “a dystopian painting showing in part a burning forest and a crowd fleeing from it”.

The Palisades fire was one of several major blazes that encircled Los Angeles in early January. The blaze destroyed more than 6,800 structures, including homes and businesses, and damaged over 1,000 more buildings. A fire that broke out the same day in nearby Altadena killed nearly 20 people. Investigators have not yet determined the cause of that fire.

Rinderknecht faces a mandatory minimum five-year federal prison sentence if convicted, with a maximum penalty of up to 20 years. He was scheduled to make his initial appearance on Wednesday afternoon in federal court in Orlando, Florida.

“While we cannot undo the damage and destruction that was done, we hope his arrest and the charges against him bring some measure of justice to the victims of this horrific tragedy,” Essayli said.

In a statement, California Governor Gavin Newsom thanked investigators for “confirming the indisputable facts on the ground”.

“Today’s arrest of 29-year-old Florida resident Jonathan Rinderknecht marks an important step toward uncovering how the horrific Palisades fire began and bringing closure to the thousands of Californians whose lives were upended,” he said.

An outside review of Los Angeles county’s response to the blazes released last month found that critical staffing shortages, including at sheriff’s department and the office of emergency management, contributed to the emergency. The report also concluded that outdated policies for sending emergency alerts led to delays in warning residents about the need to evacuate as flames began consuming neighborhoods in Altadena and the Pacific Palisades. In addition, the report noted, information sharing between emergency responders was hampered by unreliable cellular connectivity, inconsistent field reporting methods, and the use of different communicating platforms.

The report was produced by the consulting firm McChrystal Group and was commissioned by county supervisors.

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An aerial view of homes which were destroyed in the Palisades fire, with some lots cleared of debris on 15 March 2025 in Pacific Palisades, California. Photograph: Mario Tama/Getty Images

Jonathan Rinderknecht, a suspect in the Palisades fire. Photograph: AP

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A heart attack happens when there is a buildup of cholesterol and fat, which leads to the formation of plaque in your arteries that provide blood flow to the heart. The plaque formation not only disrupts the blood flow but also damages the heart muscle. Doctors say that most heart attacks happen when people are alone, which makes them dangerous and life-threatening.

Hence, it is important to know what to do when the symptoms of a heart attack come on to save your life.

Experts say it is important to be prepared through proper awareness to save your life. It is also important to recognize the symptoms that could signal a possible heart attack.

• Acute or heavy pain in the chest
• Pain continuing in the arms, especially the left arm, neck, jaws, and back
• Difficulty in breathing
• Intense fatigue
• Nausea and Vomiting
• Excessive sweat

Doctors advise never to take these symptoms lightly, especially when you are living alone. Also, women may experience different symptoms, like sharp pain in their neck, arm, or back. In some cases, the first sign of a heart attack can also be sudden cardiac arrest – a medical condition where the heart stops beating unexpectedly and can be dangerous if the treatment is delayed.

Sometimes, heart attacks do not happen suddenly. Many people have warning signs hours, days, or even weeks before. Persistent chest pain or pressure that does not go away with rest could be an early warning sign of a heart attack.

What should you do in case of a heart attack?

Being alone during a medical emergency like a heart attack can be a scary experience, and so it is important to make the right moves to survive till help arrives. While you may not be able to stop a heart attack alone, prompt medical help can prevent further severe damage. Here is a list of steps to follow on how to survive a heart attack when alone:

Call emergency services immediately

Immediately dial 108 or the local emergency number. Inform the operator of the condition and follow their instructions.

Take an aspirin

Take a tablet, chew and swallow it as soon as you begin feeling symptoms of a heart attack. Doctors say the medicines thin your blood, which alleviates the severity of a heart attack.

Take rest

You must immediately sit down in a comfortable position and, if feeling lightheaded or dizzy, lie on the left side of your body with legs bent. According to experts, this position helps improve blood flow to the heart

Call someone

Until the ambulance or doctor arrives, immediately call a friend, family member, or neighbour who can provide comfort and assistance

Stay calm

Experts suggest taking long and steady breaths to help stay calm. Do not panic and remember that help is on its way.

Do not eat or drink anything.

Do not attempt to eat or drink anything, as this might complicate the situation.

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After months of deadlock, Israel and Hamas have reached an agreement for the release of Israeli hostages in exchange for Palestinian prisoners, a long-awaited breakthrough that could point toward an end to the two-year war in Gaza.

President Trump, who helped broker the deal, announced on social media Wednesday that both sides had agreed to the first phase of his plan, including that Israel would pull back their troops to an agreed upon line. Qatar, one of the countries helping negotiate, and Hamas also indicated in statements that the deal would allow for the entry of aid into Gaza.

Oct. 8, 2025, 8:04 p.m. ET7 hours ago

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Netanyahu described the agreement as “a critical turning point,” as well as “a diplomatic success and a national and moral victory” for Israel, in a new statement. He also thanked President Trump for “his unwavering commitment to the safety of Israel and the freedom of our hostages.”

Oct. 8, 2025, 8:00 p.m. ET7 hours ago

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Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu of Israel has spoken with President Trump and thanked him for his efforts and his “world leadership,” according to a statement from Netanyahu’s office. “The two held a very emotional and warm conversation and congratulated each other on the historic achievement,” the statement said. Netanyahu has invited the U.S. president to address the Israeli Parliament, the statement added.

Oct. 8, 2025, 7:57 p.m. ET7 hours ago

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The hostage release is expected as soon as this weekend and preparations are already underway, an official familiar with details of the deal said.

Oct. 8, 2025, 7:50 p.m. ET8 hours ago

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The Hostages and Missing Families Forum said in statement pos

ted to X on Wednesday the agreement had provoked “a mix of excitement, anticipation, and concern” among its members. The group expressed “profound gratitude” to President Trump, and called on the Israeli government to “convene immediately” to approve the agreement. “Any delay could exact a heavy toll on the hostages and soldiers,” the group wrote.

Oct. 8, 2025, 7:46 p.m. ET8 hours ago

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It is nearly 3 a.m. in Israel and all the main television channels here are broadcasting live, though they usually shut down for the night around midnight. Tearful relatives of hostages and former hostages were posting emotional and joyful videos on social media. “That’s it, it’s over!” Meirav Gilboa-Dalal, the mother of hostage Guy Gilboa Dallal, 24, told Channel 12 News as family members cheered in the background.

Oct. 8, 2025, 7:42 p.m. ET8 hours ago

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Iran had said earlier this week in a statement from its foreign ministry that it would support any decision made by Palestinians and their “resistance groups” as they negotiated with Israel on a Trump cease-fire plan. Iran has for years armed and funded Hamas as part of a regional policy that boosted regional militant groups known as the “axis of resistance’ to fight Israel. In the past two years, Israel has decimated groups like Hezbollah in Lebanon. Now if a cease-fire holds in Gaza, and Hamas disarms or retreats, it would deliver yet another blow to Iran’s regional strategy.

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Katya Emelianova kneels beside a portrait of a loved one at a memorial to victims, soldiers, and hostages in Tel Aviv, Israel, Tuesday.Credit…David Guttenfelder/The New York Times

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