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Stop saying ‘I think’—to sound confident and influence people, use this ‘subtle but powerful’ swap

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We’ve all done it. You’re in a meeting, on a date or even texting a friend, and two words slip into the conversation: “I think we should go with option A.” “I think we should see this movie.” “I think we should leave at 7.”

While “I think” can be harmless sprinkled in here and there, if you use it too often and in the wrong context, it can weaken your message, diminish your presence, and undermine your confidence. 

“I think” is an example of minimizing language: words and phrases that soften your statements and make you seem less sure of yourself. Other common minimizing language includes “just,” “sorry” and “maybe.” 

While these words may seem polite, they can dilute your credibility and make your ideas easier to dismiss, especially in a professional context.

Use this ‘subtle but powerful’ swap

Instead of “I think,” swap in “I recommend.” Compare these two statements:

  • “I think we should move the deadline.”
  • “I recommend moving the deadline.”

The first feels hesitant, while the second feels authoritative and action-oriented. Even if the message you want to convey is exactly the same, your words carry more weight when framed as a recommendation rather than what can be interpreted as a passing thought.

  • Instead of: “I think we should go with the second proposal.“
    Try: “I recommend we go with the second proposal.”
  • Instead of: “I think we should prioritize this project.“
    Try: “I recommend prioritizing this project.”
  • Instead of: “I think you should try this restaurant.“
    Try: “I recommend trying this restaurant.”
  • Instead of:  “I think you should change your reservation.“
    Try: “I recommend changing your reservation.”

The shift is subtle but powerful. Saying “I recommend” instead of “I think” makes you sound more confident and decisive, gives you more influence, and ensures you’re seen as someone whose opinion matters.

What if you’re not sure?

There are times when it feels like you really should use “I think.” Perhaps you’re not confident in your recommendation, or you purposefully want to soften your message.

While it’s certainly a path you can take, you can still use “I recommend” in these situations — with a twist.

Preface your recommendation with an indication of what you’re drawing on to give it. For example:

  • “Based on what I’ve seen, I recommend…”
  • “Looking at the data, I’d recommend…”
  • “From my experience, I’d recommend…”

This keeps your statement strong while acknowledging some uncertainty and leaving room for further discussion.

Break the ‘I think’ habit

Any time you try to disrupt a pattern that’s deeply ingrained in your everyday conversations, it takes practice. Here are a few strategies you can try to break this particular communication habit:

  1. Listen for it. Start noticing how often you say “I think,” and in what contexts it tends to pop up. It may surprise you how many times a day you use this phrase. 

  2. Enlist help. Ask friends or peers to call it out when they hear it to help keep you accountable.

  3. Pause before you speak. Speaking more slowly and adding pauses is already helpful when trying to appear more authoritative and confident. Now, you can also catch yourself when you’re about to say “I think” and give yourself enough time to swap it out.

  4. Observe your writing. “I think” often creeps into our written communication too, especially quick messages over Slack or Teams. Take a second pass at your writing before hitting send to make sure you’re keeping things concise and using strong phrases like “I recommend.”

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First Black American Elected to Tennessee General Assembly: Sampson W. Keeble

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First Black American Elected to Tennessee General Assembly: Sampson W. Keeble

First African American Elected Lieutenant Governor of Michigan: Garlin Gilchrist

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First African American Elected Lieutenant Governor of Michigan: Garlin Gilchrist

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Change is scary, but it’s essential for growth. Embrace it, and you’ll discover new things and become stronger. It’s like stepping into the unknown, but the rewards are often far greater than the risks. Change can challenge your comfort zone, but it also forces you to adapt and evolve. By embracing change, you’ll open yourself […]

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Medicaid Cuts Kick Down on People Caught in the Opioid Epidemic

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The tragic opioid epidemic continues to rage in the U.S. Roughly 76 percent of U.S. drug overdose deaths, more than 70,000 people in 2023, are linked to opioids, including heroin and illicit fentanyl. The bill for that calamity—dire enough to justify a global trade war with Canada, Mexico, and China—is falling increasingly on a federal health coverage program that now faces the chopping block.

That program is Medicaid, which in 2023 paid for about 39 percent of the nonfatal emergency department overdoses. That alone helped people in acute distress some 118,000 times in the 26 states that provide data. The total number of people treated for opioid use disorder (OUD) under Medicaid in 2021 was nearly 1.82 million, or 35 percent of all people treated for the disorder in the U.S. More than half, or 930,910 people, became eligible for Medicaid because of the Affordable Care Act’s (ACA) Medicaid expansion.

In February, Congress passed a resolution that will most likely mean $880 billion in reduced federal spending in Medicaid over 10 years. That would reduce its spending by nearly 12 percent over the next 10 years. To provide some context, in 2023, Medicaid spent $616 billion of federal funds, alongside an additional $245 billion in state spending, according to the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS). Widespread cuts to Medicaid enrollments and spending of the kind Congress contemplates, will surely hurt people who rely on the program for treatment of their addictive conditions.

To realize $880 billion in reduced Medicaid spending, Congress is considering imposing work requirements on beneficiaries who do not qualify for Social Security Disability payments, reduced subsidies for states that expanded Medicaid, and reduced federal “matching” spending provided to states. All of which would result in reduced enrollment of people suffering from opioid use disorder and substance use disorders, involving alcohol, cocaine, methamphetamines or other drugs, generally. If that happens, evidence based on lessons from Medicaid expansion shows that fewer people in the expansion population will have healthcare coverage. In fact, it is estimated that if the expansions were eliminated, roughly 65 percent of people in the expansion population would likely end up uninsured. This is especially salient because Medicaid financed care represents such a large share of all the OUD treatments in the country, in large measure because of the Medicaid expansion.

The lesson from the expansion experience is that when people gain coverage, they are more likely to seek treatment for addiction and get treated with lifesaving drugs. Furthermore, people in treatment are less likely to overdose and die than those not in treatment. So dramatic reductions in spending on treatment for OUD will likely result in more overdoses and more deaths consequent to the disorder.

Medicaid expansion has also contributed to the financial health of hospitals, especially those in rural areas of the nation. It led to significantly reduced uncompensated care costs experienced by hospitals. This was found for hospitals overall. More specifically, states that expanded Medicaid experienced large drops in the percentage of emergency department visits for an OUD (frequently for a nonfatal overdose) that were delivered to people without health insurance. Likewise, expansion states experienced a 50 percent drop in the number of opioid-related hospitalizations that were for people without insurance. That improved hospital bottom lines by millions of dollars. Hospital willingness to address substance use issues through targeted programs generally, and for OUD specifically, has been shown to be greater in states that have expanded Medicaid. This willingness is especially important for rural areas, as about 74 percent of rural hospital closures have been in the non-expansion states. Without these funds, a lot more rural hospitals will close.

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New Pyramid Discovered In Peru!

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Archaeologists discovered a pyramid structure at the Chupacigarro archaeological site, which is part of the Sacred City of Caral-Supe. The pyramid may date back to 3800 years ago!

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‘People are really angry’: A vibe shift around layoffs is happening across the workforce

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Melanie Ehrenkranz isn’t a stranger to job instability. In the decade she’s worked in media, she’s seen countless smart and creative friends lose their jobs during mass layoffs.

When it happened to her in 2023, it sparked an idea: Ehrenkranz decided to create a resource for people going through layoffs to discuss the thorny parts of getting the news — the indignity of being let go over a video call, who they told first, getting into company gossip with ex-co-workers, and what they named their commiseration group chats.

In other words, all the things you want to spill but can’t post on LinkedIn.

By August 2024, Ehrenkranz launched Laid Off, a Substack newsletter that aims to be “the coolest place on the internet to talk about being laid off.” She runs the newsletter on top of her day job as head of content and community at Business Class, which makes online courses for entrepreneurs.

Readers of Laid Off, now more than 6,000 of them and growing, get weekly spotlights of people’s layoff stories and how they’re handling them.

“This is something I wish I had,” Ehrenkranz, 35, tells CNBC Make It.

‘I don’t want this to be depressing or bleak’

Most of the Laid Off readers work in tech, followed by news and media, health care, advertising and then retail.

A majority discuss being laid off in 2024 — at home via Zoom, while on a group conference call, via an email. Many responded to Ehrenkranz’s recent survey to say joining the Laid Off community has given them a cathartic, almost fun, place to reflect on the experience as a group.

“I don’t want this to be depressing or bleak,” Ehrenkranz says. “Obviously it’s a really deflating experience and traumatic, but I think we can also create a fun, cathartic community.”

Spinning the layoff experience on its head, and detaching the self-blame and guilt that often goes with it, can make it feel less isolating and taboo, Ehrenkranz adds.

She hopes that readers see “all these really smart, cool, successful people” telling their stories in their own words. “We’re all doing our best. We might have been at the top of our game. We’ve been laid off. And I think that also helps to re-wire your brain that might be [wondering]: What did I do wrong to deserve this? And the answer is nothing.”

Laid Off’s paid subscribers (for $5 per month) also get access to a Discord channel, a community of over 700 users who trade layoff horror stories but also tips on navigating today’s challenging job market.

Shame is giving way to ‘righteous anger’

The conversations show a shift in the layoff environment. While early pandemic days helped more people uncouple their job loss from their self-worth, and the post-Great Resignation job cuts ushered in a new era of vulnerability in LinkedIn posts, the chatter around losing your job these days feels a little more confrontational.

As Ehrenkranz puts it, “I think a lot of people are feeling angry.”

It’s “almost impossible” to scroll on LinkedIn without seeing a connection writing that they’ve been laid off, Ehrenkranz says: “Being bombarded with these stories and images and Open to Work banners, it does start to kind of strip away that shame. And underneath that shame, I think, is this righteous anger.”

The rising anger is coinciding with companies like Meta and Microsoft saying they’re laying off people due to poor performance. Meanwhile, tens of thousands of public servants have been fired, some under the guise of unsatisfactory employee assessments, as the Trump administration works to slash the size of the federal workforce.

But those who received pink slips aren’t going quietly, and at times are publicly challenging the evaluations of their work.

Angry posts are less targeted toward the messiness of a mass layoff, and more so toward “executives who made a decision to de-value work [employees] believed was important, or decisions executives made that put the company in a precarious place, and it cost people their jobs, but not necessarily the people at the top.”

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First African American Connecticut State Comptroller: Natalie Braswell

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First African American Connecticut State Comptroller: Natalie Braswell

On This Day: March 23, 1875

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On This Day: March 23, 1875

See How Drought Whiplash Led to California Wildfires

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The devastating fires in California early this year came after a particularly unfortunate weather pattern—an exceptionally wet period of about 18 months, followed by an exceptionally dry spell. The wet duration encouraged grass and brush growth, and then the lack of rain dried it all out, priming it to catch on fire and spread quickly.

“It was a classic example of wet-to-dry whiplash,” says Daniel Swain, a climate scientist at the University of California, Los Angeles. And such whiplashes may be getting more common. “With climate change, it’s not just that we’re seeing things get drier and drier. There’s also a trend toward more variability, with wider swings between wet and dry,” Swain says.

The warming climate is leading to what scientists call the “expanding atmospheric sponge” effect. Warmer air can hold more water vapor than cooler air, so the atmosphere is like a kitchen sponge that gets larger. If water is available, the atmosphere will absorb more of it, and when you wring out the sponge, you get more precipitation. But if there is no water to absorb, that thirstier air sucks more moisture out of the landscape, from bodies of water, surfaces and plants, drying everything out.

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